February 13th, 2010
Ned and Sue Hallowell spoke to the Globe about their book, love, marriage-and their anniversary. To read the interview “Marriage un-interrupted“ click here: http://www.boston.com/lifestyle/relationships/articles/2010/02/13/living_and_loving_together_in_the_age_of_interruption/
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February 3rd, 2010
I am writing to you now–with immense joy and enthusiasm–to announce the publication of my new book, Married to Distraction: Restoring Intimacy and Strengthening Your Marriage in an Age of Interruption. See a sneak peak now! It hits the bookstores March 16, but is available to be pre-ordered on Amazon and other online stores now.
It is actually not my new book, but our new book, as I wrote it with my wife, Sue Hallowell. It is the first time that Sue, a social worker and couples therapist, has teamed up with me to write a book, and we are over-the-top excited about it. We’ve been married for 20 years. We have 3 children. We’ve been getting ready to write this book since we first met, some 25 years ago. That’s why we’re so excited.
Excited enough to promise that you will love this book. At least if you care about love, you will love this book.
It probes the world of closeness and commitment in today’s crazy busy world. It is not a book about ADD in marriage, it is a book about modern life and marriage. It looks at how difficult it can be just to get your partner’s attention and deal with constant interruptions. It looks at how frustrating it can be to conduct a relationship via cell phone, BlackBerry, or email. But is also shows how the problems can be solved and marriages can thrive in our modern, fast-paced world. Our book shows how people can get from their relationship what they are truly looking for.
It shows how to end what we call “the big struggle” and replace it with a relationship based on mutual empathy and understanding. It shows how you have fun together once again, laugh and play together, and enjoy life. We show you how to make your relationship special, in the way that we all want our number one relationship to be special. We believe in romance, but we also believe in practical advice and dealing with reality. We offer many concrete tips, and we close the book with a workbook called “30 Minutes, 30 Days.” We ask you as a couple to spend 30 uninterrupted minutes with each other, once a day for 30 days, and we give you various enjoyable exercises to do during those 30 minutes, exercises that will bring you closer together, that will make you laugh and cry, that will lead you to plan and feel hopeful and excited to be together. If you do what we know you can do, if you make your marriage as good as it can be, life’s other problems recede into proper perspective.
We fervently believe, indeed we know, that marriage can not only improve but can rise to the level of fulfillment and fun you yearn for and seek. That’s the promise of this new book.
We hope you will order it, read it, and send us your feedback. We love getting thoughts and ideas from our readers. If you are receiving this email, we already know that you are interested. We can’t wait to connect with you after you’ve read the book.
With warm wishes,
Edward (Ned) Hallowell, M.D. and Sue George Hallowell, LICSW
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January 12th, 2010
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As most of you know, I am always on the lookout for promising new interventions for ADHD, dyslexia, and other learning differences. I am excited to be writing now to tell you about one that I think is particularly promising. It is called Integrated Listening Systems, or iLs for short.Â
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The founders of iLs call it a “brain integration program.” Although that is quite a mouthful, what the founders are trying to emphasize is that this intervention works through several of the brains systems that impact learning: the visual, the auditory, and the vestibular (balance) systems. Hence the term “brain integration.”Â
By addressing several systems simultaneously, you can get more bang for your buck, so to speak, more bang for each minute spent using the program, more bang for each calorie of effort spent.  Since such calories are not infinite, it is best to get the most out of each one!Â
iLs has expanded upon an auditory therapy developed in Europe years ago, and added visual and balance exercises. The program can be customized to address different purposes, e.g. reading, auditory processing, attention, autism, etc. Furthermore, iLs has designed it so that kids actually have fun doing this program, instead of looking at it as drudgery. Fun leads to compliance, and compliance leads to success.Â
The combination of listening to filtered music, which sounds just like standard classical music, while doing exercises, like balancing on a wobble board or hitting a ball suspended from the ceiling, works the brain in special ways. While the full neurology has yet to be worked out, the results the program usually provides are impressive indeed. A controlled study of 64 at-risk students in New Mexico showed an average improvement in reading of two years after the three-month intervention. And at a clinic in Florida, 27 out of 29 children diagnosed with auditory processing disorder were successfully remediated after completing the program.
I have been sufficiently impressed with iLs myself to start offering the program in my offices in the Boston area and in New York City.  I have also become a paid consultant to the company to help them advance research into iLs and also to help them get the word out as to its effectiveness and availability.Â
As you all know, I am asked to endorse a host of products and interventions, and I only do so when I am convinced that the product or intervention is worthwhile. iLs meets my strict standards. Of course, we need more research to be able to predict results reliably. But children grow and develop, and they can’t always wait for the prospective double-blind studies to be done.Â
IÂ believe that iLs can help millions of children, as well as adults, who have ADHD, dyslexia, or other learning issues. It can also help with autistic spectrum disorders as well as auditory processing issues. A big plus is that the program can be implemented in clinics, schools and at home.
For more information, you can visit their website at: http://www.integratedlistening.com Â
 I welcome hearing from any of you with questions or comments.
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January 11th, 2010
Hello, I’d like to tell you about my ADHD Summer Enrichment Camp at the Leelanau School on the shores of Lake Michigan near Traverse City. The Introductury program runs from July 18 through July 23. This unique introductory program is intended for students entering grades 5 through 12 and their parents. Each morning, I meet with the parents, while the wonderful teachers at Leelanau meet with the students and help them develop an appreciation of their strengths, as well as some new grasp of skills to promote their education and lives in general. After the morning sessions, students and parents can go enjoy the lovely resort at Leelanau. Last year it was exciting to see how much the parents gained simply by being with other parents of kids who had ADD, and how much the kids gained from learning in a strength-based situation. In just a week it seemed that we accomplished a year’s worth of growth and understanding.
The advanced session at Leelanau runs from July 25 through July 30, 2010 and is for students entering grades 5 through 12 and their parents. This advanced class is for participants who previously attended the introductory camp in 2007, 2008 or 2009 and want t0Â Â learn more about ADHD and deepen their experience from the summer before.
Please note that the information isn’t available at this time on the Leelanau website www.leelanau.org, but for further details you can access the brochure here.
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January 6th, 2010
Hello, I’d like to tell you about my class at the Cape Cod Institute,  a wonderful organization run for many years by the estimable Dr. Gil Levin. My course, entitled “Unwrapping the Gifts: A Strength-Based Approach to ADHD Across The Life Span” meets in Eastham, a lovely town on the upper Cape, from July 12 through July 16. I teach in the morning, from 9 a.m. until 12:15, and after that participants go play on Cape Cod. The course is intended for mental health professionals as well as adults from other backgrounds who simply want to learn more about ADD, especially a perspective that looks for the strengths as well as the obstacles involved in the intriguing way of being called ADD.
The CAPE COD INSTITUTE is a summer long series of 27 week-long in-depth continuing education courses for mental health and management professionals, taught by leading contributors to knowledge and practice. Sessions are held Monday-Friday mornings, leaving the afternoons free for leisure and study. The courses are approved for continuing education credit for various professional groups.
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November 30th, 2009
I want to make clear my view on the use of marijuana by people who have ADHD. Â I am writing this post because of a recent piece in the New York Times that misled some readers.
I am totally and completely opposed to the use of marijuana by people who have ADHD. Â John Ratey and I made this clear some fifteen years ago in our book Answers to Distraction, and our opinion has not changed. Â The reason I feel this way is that I have seen too many patients get into enormous difficulties due to their use of pot. Â Not only can they get into trouble with the law, they can develop a dependency that leads them to be less productive in their lives than they otherwise could be. Â People with ADHD are at great risk for developing addiction or dependency on all illicit substances, as well as activities like gambling, spending, sex, food, and even exercise. Â In my experience, marijuana ranks at or near the top of the list of substances that cause problems for people who have ADHD.
I hope this clarifies my position. Â Pot and ADHD do not mix well.
Happy Holidays to you all!!!!!
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